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Jody L. Collins's avatar

Oh dear Maile.... I have tears in my eyes as I read this. What a testimony to God's faithfulness and the grace and gift of actual people.

Where am I finding community? Well, I ambled down the street today to a neighbor's garage sale and kibbitzed with several friends in the process and after 30+ years in this neighborhood I realized it's been a loooooong time since I've had conversations like that.

We're all craving that organic, in person withness of each other--we just don't realize it until the gift arrives and we embrace it.

Since I don't live in y o u r neighborhood to lend a hand at Noooks, I'll be sending my book orders your way.

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Maile Silva's avatar

Thanks so much for sharing that little vision of you with your neighbors, Jody. Yes, I, too, believe that is the "withness of each other" that we are all craving...but might not realize it. Thanks for being here and thanks for your continued support!

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Annelise Roberts's avatar

I’m so sorry! I will be praying for good restoration and insurance and all the headaches that come with this sort of thing. We work on the other side of it with as a restoration business — wish we were closer to help you dry out.

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Maile Silva's avatar

Thanks for the prayers and encouragement, Annelise! Being on this end of a needed restoration, I can enthusiastically say that the work you all do is so important!!

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Allison Byxbe's avatar

These words struck a deep, resonant chord for me: “This is happening. I thought. This is happening. Don’t fight it. Just be present to it.” I’m so sorry about the flood & damage 💛

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Maile Silva's avatar

Thank you, Allison! I was surprised by how much being in the present was what helped me navigate through the experience with some semblance of peace. Who knew?!

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Jenny Gehman's avatar

May the love and help and support pour in - in greater quantity than the waters!! I was soooo sorry to hear about this and have been praying for you folks! Here to help as needed!

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Maile Silva's avatar

Jenny, I will happily take the blessing you offered above--thank you, sweet friend!

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Jenny Gehman's avatar

🙏 😘

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Amanda Slagle's avatar

I'm dying to know about the book by the priest who uses bad language and tells questionable stories! I live all the way in Western PA, but will happily buy that book from your store. Love- one book lover to another.

PS- Sorry about the flood. I own a business too and accidentally flooded part of my own office once. Did you know those fancy Hydromassage tables will spray 32 gallons of water out in less than a minute with the velocity of a power boat motor? I didn't either until I didn't secure the lid correctly.

PSS- I have been dryer during a shower than I was then. I hope you can laugh at the visual!

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Maile Silva's avatar

Oh, Amanda! I have to admit, I'm loving the visual (he, he!), but yikes, I hope you had a quick path through the clean up. From our own experience here, I know it's no fun. And, in answer to your wonderings, the book was Cherished Belonging by Gregory Boyle. A challenging (in a good way) book to read in our current cultural climate. (And if you want to order a copy, just let me know!)

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Jennie Brandon's avatar

I live 4000 miles away and wish I could visit your store but you're podcast and your substack are so nourishing and stimulate me to keep on building community here in our neighborhood and through a community garden I run here in Cambridge, UK. The AI podcast episode led to a great conversation with my husband (also a writer), led to prayer, led to hope. Yesterday, even your very rough yesterday, your ripples spread very, very wide!

Praying for a smooth repair and restock process for you and for peace and courage in your heart.

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Maile Silva's avatar

Oh, Jennie, your comment was so encouraging! Thank you for sharing that little picture of you doing community in your own part of the world. It gave me a feeling of togetherness, even across oceans and borders. One big human family. Thanks for that!

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Jennie Brandon's avatar

You are so welcome. I honestly believe that marriages, families and communities which are thriving have a knock on positive effect on other marriages, families and communities.

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Robin Archibald's avatar

Oh my, Maile!! What a time you've been through! I so admire your emotional stamina to keep writing and to keep giving yourself to this community. It means SO MUCH. I'll be praying for you and Shawn and all the details of restoring the shop.

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Maile Silva's avatar

Thank you, Robin, for your kind words and your continued support of our work. We appreciate you so much!

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Courtney Ellis's avatar

I am so sorry for the flood! And the construction! (And the existence of AI, too, really.) Thank you for this reflection on community and good and hard days. Praying for you in the midst of it all.

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Maile Silva's avatar

Thank you, Courtney! And can I just say that your apology for AI made me chuckle. I definitely think there are some folks out there who need to be apologizing to HUMANITY for AI, but, friend, it's not you.

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Courtney Ellis's avatar

I am one of those northerners who generally apologize for everything. Not Canadian, but close.

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Marcy's avatar

I’m so sorry this happened! Hopefully not too many books were ruined and an insurance claim will help with replacements! Hang in there!

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Maile Silva's avatar

Thank you, Marcy. We continue to be amazed by the wonderful people that have come alongside us in this, every step of the way. And we are well on our way to mending!

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Lore Wilbert's avatar

Community is what makes Nooks good. You guys are what makes Nooks great. Love you guys.

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Maile Silva's avatar

Aw, Lore. My sweet friend. Thanks for being such a champion of our little bookshop dream. Hugs and love to you.

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Lauren Flanagan's avatar

Oh Maile, I'm so sorry!! I can affirm that what you guys are doing is such good work. I know it can be hard but keep on keeping on! Our city is so much better with Nooks in it 💛

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Maile Silva's avatar

Lauren, you are so sweet! And thank YOU for being such a vibrant and active part of our community here at Nooks. We appreciate you!

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Sherry V. Chidwick's avatar

Ah, the ups and downs of it all. I am so glad you had the boost of strength from that customer interaction still coursing through your veins when the deluge hit. This too shall pass, and all that jazz. It's still good work. Carry on, friend.

As nomads, finding community is a challenge for us. Reading things like this brings a sense of camaraderie, however small. Thanks for writing.

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Maile Silva's avatar

Thank you, Sherry, for reading. And for testifying to the truth that "this too shall pass." That was one of my Mim's favorite sayings and it fits perfectly here. Blessings to you in your wanderings, and may community spring up in the most unexpected places!

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Beka McDowell's avatar

Oh friend! I cried through your recounting of the flood, from the early discovery to how frantic you must have been to all the people circling to help to the peace. I’m sorry this happened. And I’m grateful for the community of support to help lighten the load. It’s beautiful when that can happen, whether it’s an emotional load or a physical one.

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Maile Silva's avatar

Beka, I am so grateful for all of your continued support through the up and downs of this bookshop dream. You are a steady, ever-encouraging presence in the midst of it all. We so appreciate you and your friendship!

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Andrea Stoeckel's avatar

They say G-d doesn't give us more than we can handle Malle. You done good girl: everything you should. I' be over to help if I could but send you prayers and love

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Maile Silva's avatar

Thank you for the prayers and love, Andrea. They go much farther than you can imagine, and we are so appreciative of your support!

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